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LEONARD M.WEINER, ESQ, Ph.D.

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LEONARD M.WEINER, ESQ, Ph.D.

(212) 370-1660

Divorce Solutions

Divorce Solutions

(212) 370-1660

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Mediation Vs Litigation

MEDIATION

  • Concern for Children’s Best Interests
  • Less Stress
  • Work Together
  • Comfortable Environment
  • Private & Confidential (comfortable office)
  • You Control Length of Time (months)
  • Expense: You Control
  • Cooperative, Amicable
  • You are in Control of process
  • Fair, Objective, Compassionate
  • Give and Take
  • See Both Sides
  • Compassionate, Empathetic
  • Ongoing Working Relationship with Spouse and Children
  • You are Educated & Guided
  • Addresses Future Issues, Relationship
  • Sensible & Responsible Negotiation
  • Ongoing Working Relationship with Spouse and Children

LITIGATION

  • Attorneys/Judge Control process
  • Adversarial, Confrontational & Combative
  • Public (cold, intimidating courtroom)
  • Attorneys Control Length of Time (Year + 2)
  • Expense: Attorneys Control
  • Adversarial, Confrontational & Combative
  • Attorneys/Judge Control process
  • Biased, Partisan, One-Sided
  • Fight to the finish
  • Combative, Confrontational
  • Children may be used as Pawns
  • Stressful
  • Work Against Each Other
  • Attorney Dictates
  • Children may be used as Pawns
  • Stressful
  • Work Against Each Other
  • Unfamiliar, Intimidating Courtroom
  • Get the Most You Can Now
  • All-or-Nothing Mentality
  • Get the Most You Can Now
  • All-or-Nothing Mentality
  • Often Results in Hurt Feelings and Irreparably Damaged Relationships with Spouse and Children