You can sue him for divorce in NY and he will be required to complete a sworn affidavit
outlining all of his assets and liabilities.
If you cannot afford to pay for an attorney, the court will make him pay for your attorney
In a marriage of 11 years, you should be entitiled to some spousal support to allow you to get
on your feet.
I strongly suggest you consider mediation. If you are living in the NYC metro area, please call me
to arrange for an appointment to discuss the matter in greater length.
Leonard M. Weiner, Esq./Divorce Solutions